Stop Thinking and Start Doing: A Goal Setting Starter Plan

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{Created for the Overwhelmed Overthinker}

 

I know you fall into one of these two camps:

“I love setting goals and crushing them faster than expected.”

-or-

“I’m afraid to set goals. By the time I research and then think through every possible step and outcome, it always seems like I’ve missed the best opportunities.”

If you’re in the second group, then I’m right there with you! Deciding on goals and actually accomplishing anything is an everyday struggle for overthinkers, one that I know all too well.

(And if you’re in the first group, I love learning from you!)

The reality is that you’re NEVER going to be as productive as you THINK you should be or it SEEMS like everyone else is. What you need to realize is — that’s okay! You just need to work differently and set expectations for yourself that are NOT based on what you BELIEVE everyone else is doing.

Sometimes productivity articles from super-accomplished people can be a little depressing. While we rejoice in the fact that there are people who are out there “crushing it,” we overthinkers feel like we will never catch up.

If you are going through the same thing, keep reading… I’ve got some suggestions to help!

 

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I’m going to throw myself out there as an example. There are SO MANY things I think I should be working toward all.the.time. I love blogging and graphics and writing and Pinterest and DIY projects and decluttering and reading and…. You get the idea? But, very recently I had to face the fact that trying to do all of those things at the same time meant I wasn’t getting anywhere. I simply cannot have multiple goals.

 

 

This is what I’m doing now, and I know you can make this goal setting starter plan work for you:

 

How to Start?

First, do a brain dump. Write down every.single.thing. that you feel like you should be working on. Give yourself 15 minutes. Use a piece of notebook paper, a journal, or type it on your computer. Choose the method that lets you get your thoughts out as quickly as possible. This list will be long, and it should include vague future goals as well as all of the little tasks you keep putting off (like, um, dusting).

Move the little tasks to a separate list. Block time daily or weekly to knock out a few of these at a time, but don’t let them distract you right now. If you leave them on your “big things” list, they will take your focus off your main goal. Once the little things are off your list, forget about them until your scheduled time block.

Tip: DON’T divide your “big things” list into professional, personal, health, home, family, etc. For overthinkers, that’s a recipe for overwhelm, indecision, and failure. 

Next, take 30 seconds to force yourself to choose the most important thing from your “big things” list. How do you know what’s most important? Simply put, it’s the thing that bothers you all the time — the goal or task that your mind dwells on no matter what else you are doing. This is THE ONE THING you will work on.

I know, I know, it feels like you should be doing a little something in every area. It’s tempting to make a priority goal for each section of your life. But if you do that, you’re going to be right back where you started — overwhelmed and unable to make a decision or get anything done.

Now, break your ONE goal into actionable steps. You’re not writing a how-to volume here. Just spend 10 minutes to work out the basics. You can always break it down more as you’re working.

Don’t get caught up in the “first I need to…” procrastinating actions that will push the actual beginning of working toward your ONE THING off for hours, days, or weeks. Allowing yourself to do all of those little things first means you will NEVER succeed at what you REALLY want to do.

 


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Working Toward Your Goal

Every day, set a schedule of tasks with time limits. Using a simple daily planner can help you visualize the task/time relationship and keep track of your progress. Now, choose the ONE TOP TASK and make that your focus for the day. Draw a box around that task with your favorite colored pen or marker — it should be the ONLY thing you notice when you glance at that paper.

I know you think you need to do all 19 things on your list, but it’s not going to happen in one day. You know this. I know this. We don’t like to admit it, but it’s the truth.

However, if you get that ONE TOP TASK done, you will be incredibly motivated to knock out the next task. Believe me, you CAN surprise yourself by what you can do in a day, but don’t put that kind of pressure on yourself to start with. Set a time limit for your task. Then double it. Just trust me on this.

(Eventually I would love to write a post about how to get things done in the same amount of time as “regular” people, but, well… I have to figure out how to DO that. For now, it’s all about getting SOMETHING done.)

Side note: Okay, those of you who are familiar with my post 3 Steps to Build Your Best Life are thinking, “But she used to say 3 things per day.” Yep, I did. But I found myself constantly thinking about the next two things I was supposed to do and then it took me farrrrrr too long to finish the one important thing. Now I just worry about ONE TASK.

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Don’t Get Stuck, Overwhelmed, or Distracted

If you’re in the planning stage for a project, blog post, whatever… don’t allow yourself to get stuck. Stop reading books and blog posts about how to do things related to your goal. Limit your research to something reasonable — say 1-2 SHORT books and 3 articles. That’s enough. You really will have the information you need to move on.

As an overthinker, you also need to scale down the advice you read.

For example, new bloggers are usually told to be very active on at least three social media platforms. I tried that for months and was getting burned out. A few weeks ago I realized that even with scheduling programs, I can’t keep up with that and I do not want to hire someone to do it for me. I made the decision to concentrate on only one thing — Pinterest — and let the other two platforms go for now. (By the way, would you believe my blog traffic has more than tripled since I did that?!)

As you get more comfortable with your daily capabilities and accomplishments, don’t get distracted by your other goals. Just because you’re making progress working toward the one “big thing” doesn’t mean you can start adding various tasks related to your other goals. It’s not going to work.

If you think of something new that you “need” to do, add it to your master list. For a while it may seem like your list just keeps growing, but you really will start working through the list. Some things will also naturally become unimportant or fall off the list completely. Don’t feel bad about that.

 


Related post: 5 Time Management Tips to Achieve Your Dream Life – Mom’s Small Victories


 

Calling the “Big Thing” DONE

It may have taken you longer than you wanted (doesn’t it always?), but eventually you will be on the brink of accomplishing your goal. This is where things get exciting and scary.

Don’t let yourself overthink! Don’t get scared, pull back, and decide you need to do more research or tweaking.

You can always fix the little things later. Give your “big thing” time to work (whatever it is — a new blog, a book, a product, a new family routine or cleaning schedule…) and don’t constantly monitor the progress every.second.of.the.day. Once a day or once a week is enough!

NOW you can move on to your next goal/project.

You CAN be successful at setting goals and crushing them. Just because it may take you longer doesn’t mean it won’t happen. Focus on ONE GOAL and don’t give up!

 


 

Stop Thinking and Start Doing: A Goal Setting Starter Plan | {+ FREE checklist} Do you feel overwhelmed by everything you THINK you should be doing? Check out this simple goal setting starter plan -- stop thinking, get organized, and start DOING today! | www.fillingthejars.com

Stop Thinking and Start Doing: A Goal Setting Starter Plan | {+ FREE checklist} Do you feel overwhelmed by everything you THINK you should be doing? Check out this simple goal setting starter plan -- stop thinking, get organized, and start DOING today! | www.fillingthejars.com
Stop Thinking and Start Doing: A Goal Setting Starter Plan | {+ FREE checklist} Do you feel overwhelmed by everything you THINK you should be doing? Check out this simple goal setting starter plan -- stop thinking, get organized, and start DOING today! | www.fillingthejars.com
Stop Thinking and Start Doing: A Goal Setting Starter Plan | {+ FREE checklist} Do you feel overwhelmed by everything you THINK you should be doing? Check out this simple goal setting starter plan -- stop thinking, get organized, and start DOING today! | www.fillingthejars.com

 

 

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29 thoughts on “Stop Thinking and Start Doing: A Goal Setting Starter Plan

  1. I truly appreciate this post as I really needed to hear that I cannot achieve them all if I have too much of a long list of goals trying to accomplish all at the same time. Oh, I’ve got work to do to simplify my life! Thanks so much Julie.

  2. I have been working on my 2017 goals. I do sometimes worry that i am not achieving as much as others, but have to realize that I am doing what is right for me. #Pitstop

    • Hi Michele! First, way to go on thinking ahead and working on your goals! I think getting to the point where we realize simple goals are okay is an incredibly important personal milestone. Now, let’s get busy achieving those goals!

  3. Hi Julie, thanks for sharing my time management steps for achieving your dream life. I am easily overwhelmed so I really need to focus on the small victories along the way to my dream life. I am great at setting goals but I am easily distracted too. This year my goal is to focus and be intentional with my time.

  4. Michael Watt says:

    Does anyone find that having daily To-do lists helps? Even it is only one or two things? Also, would you write down your goal/goals for each day and if so, where do you suggest?

    • Hi Michael! Yes, I always have a to-do list going, but at any given time I try to only concentrate on one thing. I like to do a brain dump (big list) on a piece of notebook paper or in a spreadsheet program that I can print out. From there I keep segmented lists in a planner or notebook. Each day I have one thing that is my goal or big to-do. Let me know if that helps, or if you have any more questions!

  5. Oh my goodness, it’s like you have been in brain, or watched me try to accomplish something. I never put the word “overthinker” to myself, but it’s so accurate! And recognizing that alone will help me. These tips are great. Thank you!!!

    • Hi Liz! LOL – I knew there had to be more people like me out there! 😉 Thanks for visiting and I’m so glad you could find something here to help you. I hopped over to visit your blog and love it! Keep posting!

  6. Raquel says:

    This is so helpful. I am guilty of planning something to death and never starting. I’m the queen of setting goals, planning them out, and breaking them down, but I hit a brick wall in actually implamenting the steps. I know I need less details and more doing.

    • Hi Raquel! As someone who has the exact same problem, I can STRONGLY encourage you to find that ONE thing you really want to accomplish, and start working on it TODAY. As in, actually DO something. It’s a constant fight to not get caught in the planning stages, but once you finish one or two things and realize that you actually CAN reach some goals, it gets a little easier to keep moving. Thanks for the comment, and be sure to let me know how things go for you! 🙂

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